Tuesday, 24 December 2013


Love is normal feeling as long as you are human. Even animals have that feeling given by the God. We as human were gifted by this special feeling. Love for family. Love for friends. Love for girl/boyfriend. Love for environment. Love for money.

Allah says in the Quran, surah Al Imraan verses 14, which means:

"Fair in the eyes of men is the love of things they covet: Women and sons; Heaped-up hoards of gold and silver; horses branded (for blood and excellence); and (wealth of) cattle and well-tilled land. Such are the possessions of this world's life; but in nearness to Allah is the best of the goals (To return to)."

As we all know, love is a thing that we as human have naturally. A human is not normal if he does not have the sense of love or affection. Without it, the world would be in messy situation right now. Love makes you care for others, and makes others care for you. Usually when we are talking about love, automatically we will focus on love for a couple of boyfriend/girlfriend or love for husband/wife.

Talking about marriage, I'm still not married. I'm still looking for the candidate to meet with me someday. Honestly speaking (writing actually), I don't ever have any girlfriend in my life. It's not like there's no girl for me out there or no one ever admire me. I just don't like to give full commitment as a boyfriend yet. Maybe that's why the reason I'm still not married despite almost all my friends at the same age already have at least a child.

However kids nowadays already got a boyfriend/girlfriend at a young age. What make it worse; they use the word 'love is natural' as escapism to make their relationship legal from their point of view. I'm not saying it's wrong to love someone but at least be sure that you are not going beyond our principle of Islam. Since all of them admitted that they are Muslims, please, protect your dignity as a Muslim. They posted a picture of kissing in the Facebook (not married couple) than gave a caption 'love forever till Jannah'. What the fish is that?

"Nor come nigh to adultery: for it is a shameful (deed) and an evil, opening the road (to other evils)." (Al-Israa: 32)

 9.51 am
24 December 2013

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